11 Healthy Habits That Can Help You Sleep Better

If you want to be a better sleeper, adopt these lifelong, sleep-friendly habits stat.

Some people simply sleep better. They just snuggle into bed, lay their head down on their favorite pillow, and are out cold in a few minutes—or even a few seconds. While that's great for them, many people are constantly on the hunt for how to sleep better—whether it's getting an adjustable bed or searching for the most comfortable sheets. For some, a body pillow is the answer. For others, it's a weighted blanket. After all, a full night's sleep is essential to our health and well-being. A cooling mattress topper can provide some relief for hot sleepers who wake up sweaty in the middle of the night. Cooling pillows are also a good option. There are even cooling weighted blankets for who those want to avoid overheating. There's certainly no shortage of great places to buy bedding online. And while you might assume that your current sleep habits are firmly ingrained, as with any habit, there are certainly ways to change and improve them (with a little persistence, of course).

If you regularly have trouble getting a full night of rest—whether you struggle to fall asleep, have issues staying asleep, or experience some frustrating combination of both—read on for how to sleep better using these science-backed and expert-approved strategies.

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Stick to a consistent sleep/wake schedule

We all have busy lives, and it's often tough to get to bed at the same time every day. That said, keeping a consistent bedtime and wake-up schedule is the number-one recommendation from numerous sleep experts, including Michael J. Breus, PhD, a Los Angeles–area sleep specialist and founder of The Sleep Doctor. "It's critical to keeping your circadian rhythm in sync, and should even be practiced on the weekends," Breus explains. This self-regulation is a major solution for how to sleep.

If your sleep schedule is currently all over the place, the best way to start working toward a consistent and healthy pattern is to wake up at the same time every single day (yes, Saturday and Sunday, too!). Your body will gradually start to adjust itself and follow suit to get sleepy at the same time every night.

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Get enough daily sunlight exposure

In his book Why We Sleep: Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams, professor and director of UC Berkeley's Sleep and Neuroimaging Lab, Matthew Walker, PhD, explains that "daylight is key to regulating daily sleep patterns." He urges everyone to go outside for at least 30 minutes for their daily fix of natural light. "Sleep experts recommend that, if you have problems falling asleep, you should get an hour of exposure to morning sunlight and turn down the lights before bedtime," Walker writes.Installing blackout curtains will also help keep your sleep space perfectly dark for optimum sleep conditions.

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Unplug before bed

If you want to ensure a deeper sleep and fewer racing thoughts after lights out, you need to power off phones, TVs, computers, and tablets at least one hour before bedtime. "The blue light stimulates the brain and keeps you alert, so I ask people to try to shut their screens down early," Breus says. Even devices with nighttime settings emit blue light, so you should shut those down early too, he says.

If you must use a device at night, Breus recommends using blue blocker glasses to filter out some of your screens' light waves.

Beyond the blue light dilemma, which is still up for debate by many experts, digital gadgets are simply too stimulating for anyone trying to get to sleep. How can you possibly sleep soundly after scrolling through stressful work emails, seeing what everyone's up to on Instagram, or reeling from a particularly thought-provoking article? If you're having trouble disconnecting, place your phone and laptop far away from the bed every night, preferably in another room.

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Exercise daily (but not too close to bedtime)

You know that working out is good for your overall health, but it can also improve your sleep quality, particularly if you work out in the morning, or at least earlier in the day. Evening workouts are definitely OK too, but they should occur two to four hours before bedtime to give your body time to cool down before you go to sleep, says Breus. He recommends 20 to 30 minutes of cardio exercise a day, to promote better sleep at night.

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Resist napping after 3 p.m.

Sleep cycles are truly cycles. If you get a bad night's sleep, squeezing in a nap to take the edge off can certainly help. Unfortunately, indulging in a nap too late in the afternoon can make it harder to fall asleep at night, and continuing this behavior frequently puts you at risk of developing insomnia. If you can't get a nap in before 3 p.m., your best bet is to power through and go to bed a little earlier.

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Quit looking at the clock

If you often wake up in the middle of the night, you know a digital clock can taunt you. When you see that it's 4:30 a.m., you immediately start doing the mental math, stressing about how many hours there are left to get some sleep. To sleep better, experts recommend turning the clock's face away from view to curb the anxiety that keeps you awake.

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Don't consume alcohol or caffeine before bed

You knew this one was coming. Sure, a glass or two of wine might give you that soothing, sleepy buzz, but once the effect wears off, you may find yourself awake with sweats, a headache, or the need to urinate frequently.

Alcohol is tricky: It helps prompt the mechanism that makes us sleepy at first, but this typically doesn't last and can disrupt REM sleep and your ability to stay asleep through the night. "Try to stop drinking three hours before bed," Breus says. "That way it's out of your system and won't affect sleep quality."

Caffeine, on the other hand, found in coffee, chocolate, certain teas, and sodas, is a stimulant that can stay in your system for up to eight hours. So even a 4 p.m. latte that seems harmless could contribute to nighttime tossing and turning.

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Turn on white or pink noise

Light sleepers will wake up at the drop of a hat—or the sound of a spouse rolling over. Parents know the experience all too well, since most have their ears perked up throughout the night, just in case. A good pair of earplugs can effectively block out distractions. Try any kind of soothing background noise, like a fan, to muffle the other sounds. You can even purchase a white noise machine, which experts use to sleep better.

Don't like the static sameness of white noise? Try pink noise—it filters out the high frequencies of white noise and gently moves between lower and higher frequencies to create "warmer" tones which mimic the movement of waves. Spotify and YouTube have tons of playlists ready to help you sleep soundly.

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Keep a cool bedroom

Did you know the body has an ideal temperature for sleep? That might be why you're more restless and uncomfortable during the summer or when the heat's blasting in February. You'll sleep better if your bedroom is on the cool side—The National Sleep Foundation recommends 67 F, to be specific.

If you run hot, crack a window or get yourself a bedroom fan. It might even be worth investing in cooling sheets or even a temperature-controlled mattress. Some of the best pajamas for women, like the Eberjey Gisele Shortie Short PJ Set, are made with temperature-regulating fabrics that help you cool. If you like memory foam pillows, look for cooling ones.

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Take a warm bath or shower

Speaking of the ideal sleeping temperature, studies suggest that taking a warm bath or shower at night, one or two hours before going to bed, can help get you there. If you time it right, a warm soak will naturally heat up your body while the cooling down process will make your body's pre-sleep dip in temperature even more pronounced.

Plus, a nice bath or shower is a great way to relax and decompress at the end of a long day.

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Don't stay in bed if you can't sleep

This is a complicated rule rooted in psychology. If you've been in bed for more than 20 minutes and can't drift off to sleep, don't lie there and stew.

Get up and do something relaxing and non-stimulating, like reading, journaling, light stretching, or meditating (remember: no phones or TV!). Then return to bed when you feel sleepy. Remaining in bed while anxious about your inability to sleep will only create negative associations between bed and sleep, which can eventually lead to the vicious cycle of insomnia. Your bed should be a sanctuary for sleep not a trap for tossing and turning.

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